
When downtown last night to see Rob Bell at the Palace Theater in Columbus for the Drops Like Stars Tour.
Really enjoyed the night. This was the third time I’ve seen Bell. Saw him twice in Cleveland for the “Everything is Spiritual” and the “Gods Aren’t Angry” Tour, so it was really nice to get him in Columbus to avoid the drive. The difference this time is I haven’t listen to him in two years, I just happen to run across his tour coming to Columbus. I even asked myself if I really wanted to go, I’ve changed quite a bit in the last two years, so wasn’t sure I’d enjoy it.
The reason I decided to go: Bell is one of the few people who inspire me. The way he view things, phrases things, and frames them is worth the price of admission. I’ve hit a rut recently, I believe it is completely possible to work your self to death. Almost the same way you boil a frog. The heat and pressure of work and life slowly get turned up on you and one day you wake up and realize you’ve boiled yourself.
The Drops Like Stars Tour is about creativity and suffering. The two are bonded together. Some the greatest works of art come out of intense suffering. Life is not nice and neat. It is a full contact game, that gets messy and ugly at times. And in the process of Life you will at times notice parts of you laying on the floor.
The choice however is yours. If you want to be bitter and angry, the world will give you plenty to be bitter and angry about. But if you choose to take the sufferings you’ve had, the pain, the agony and make yourself better, you might just come out the other end a better person.
For me the money moment of last night came when Bell said
“ Pain has a way of making you honest“
So true. Think about all the things we bottle up, that only come out after we hit the wall and can no longer keep them in. The honest words that often sting our loved ones. We live our lives in such a way that we try to avoid being honest with anyone.
So we suffer
………. we keep it in, and it slowly kills us
………………………………. yet when we let go
………………………………………………… we actually start to live
Something happens when we suffer. Maybe it’s the fact that we are forced to pay a price. Maybe it’s we are forced to clean up our own messes. Maybe it’s just the point that we are not in control of everything and are forced to confront reality. It has a way of making us honest.
It makes me reflect on marriage, and the pain and suffering two people can go through together.
If you want to get divorced, the other person will give you plenty of reason to do so. Because Life is not all nice and neat. It’s hard and painful and at times down right ugly. But when two people suffer together through hard times, or sickness, or death, there comes a point when you look back and love each other not for that person does for you, or what they bring to the marriage. But love that person in such an unconditional way because they were by your side when you suffered.